Day 77

The journey for peace will span a lifetime, but today in Columbia, South Carolina a group of Buddhist Monks shared that voyage with thousands of supporters. Diversity. Union. Peace.

Citizens of all walks of life, gathered as the largest crowd since the Monks began their pilgrimage on October 26, 2025 in Fort Worth, Texas.

In this labyrinth to Washington, DC they are opening the light. They are exhibiting resilience and steadfastness. Some are walking barefoot for over 2,300 miles. One brother has even had to have his leg amputated. And yet they press forward with loving kindness.

The path is not easy, but it’s worth it. This is life!

It was an honor to be apart of this historical moment. It also caused me to reflect on this past summer in Las Vegas, Nevada when a Buddhist Monk gifted me a Kāiguāng amulet. Today made that moment much more meaningful.

NOH8 Campaign

The NOH8 Campaign and movement began in 2009 by fashion photographer Adam Bouska and his partner Jeff Parshley.

Everyone can relate in their own way to the message which ultimately stands against discrimination and bullying of all kinds.

So many may feel oppressed and silenced by discrimination. So many may feel voiceless. But in so many ways silence is where you can regain your power.

In silence is where you can receive the most profound messages. In silence is where you can discern who is making empty promises or who is actually doing the work.

NOH8

Fittings with Minh

She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.

-Proverbs 31:24-25

Preeminent in luxury design, her presence in the fashion industry will not be overlooked. Minh Le is who every powerful woman needs. The magic she creates with needle and thread and the finest fabrics is what makes her my muse. Her gifted hands finely crafts works of art, exemplifying superior quality. Her posture; kind. Her style; elegant. Minh Le inculcates 8 letters 3 words 1 meaning; I love you!

831Minhle

Designing for today’s woman. The woman that is making history in real time. The woman who is embracing her divine femininity. The woman who is rare, confident, and benevolent.

24 Days Until Elections

With time winding down to make such a significant decision that will not only impact our lives for the next 4 years but for the future all together, I have decided to give you…

5 Reasons You Should Elect Kamala Harris as the Next President of the United States of America!

  1. In the face of injustice, Madam Vice President speaks out and in the face of bigotry, Madam Vice President stands up.
  2. In 2004, Madam Vice President became the FIRST BLACK WOMAN to be elected District Attorney of San Francisco.
  3. In 2010, Madam Vice President became the FIRST BLACK WOMAN to be elected Attorney General of California.
  4. In 2016, Madam Vice President became the SECOND BLACK WOMAN to be elected as a United States Senator.
  5. In 2020, becoming the FIRST WOMAN VICE PRESIDENT of the United States, is when Madam Vice President was coined.

“In this moment in history, in the relay race of history, I say — Let us not throw up our hands, because it’s time to roll up our sleeves.”

-Madame Vice President Kamala Harris 🇺🇸

With your help it is time we make this Illustrious BLACK WOMAN, the FIRST WOMAN PRESIDENT of the United States of America!

Sergio Hudson: Focused on the Fit

Sergio Hudson is the true definition of a visionary. Every since preschool he has been manifesting this resilient success story of becoming a luxury fashion brand. And he says the one piece of advice he would give his younger self is that the journey would be hard.

Sergio has overcome small towns and small minds. Life’s labyrinth has led him to larger mountains in which he has moved with such grace.

New Levels. New Devils.

But let’s stay Focused on the Fit! Saturday, November 18, 2023 was so magical. Opening Day of the Carolina Native’s exhibition at the Columbia Museum of Art. The ceremony was beautiful, fresh flowers adding elegance to the setting. Champagne open bar because I had to raise a glass to the occasion.

Before the moderated discussion began, The City of Columbia proclaimed November 18, 2023 as Sergio Hudson Day & also awarded him the Key to the City!

Accolades so well deserved for such a beacon of light.

The conversation began with the beautiful Megan Pinckney Rutherford moderating, Sergio’s client and friend. The chemistry was magnetic and the discussion was brilliant.

“What he’s proven time and time again is that he is a master of his craft. He uses his rolodex of style references from his upbringing right here, to make women feel strong, sophisticated, and sexy.”

Because of their genuine relationship, the dynamic allowed for Sergio to be transparent about the barriers many designers of color face. He expressed how important it is for him that his brand builds legacy! And speaking of legacy, I love the way he lights up as he speaks about his beautiful mother, Apostle Sheldon Hudson. Sergio was helping her slay the girls for Sunday Service since 5 years old. Fashion Week may be chaotic but Sergio has ultimately been preparing for this his entire life. Sergio was organizing runway shows and approving choreography as a teenager when his sister Tonya would model. I had the pleasure of meeting his handsome husband Davon Kennard, he was so kind as I congratulated him on the couple’s union.

As the conversation progressed Sergio’s team joined, which consists of: Co-Owner Inga Beckham and Co-Creative Director Charles Lynch. In order to achieve major success it’s imperative that you build a solid team.

As Lynch reflected on his journey of meeting Sergio in college all the way to their first Met Gala ball client, he revealed how the journey was not as plain as design school had made it. Sometimes the window of opportunity is not always available, sometimes neither is the front door, sometimes you may have to take the back. Which they really had to take the back door to enter the Met as it was during Covid and Lynch was unable to get his Covid test. So as great creatives do in crisis, they improvise.

Beckham planted a seed that we as Sergio Hudson supporters must water, she projected that in the future Sergio Hudson will be a brick and mortar. I look forward to a nice glass of champagne as I’m having a custom fitting with the designer.

But in the meantime, visit https://www.columbiamuseum.org and check out the breathtaking exhibit, featuring 8 signature garments and more than 20 sketches.

Rendez-Vous

If you are a fan of high fashion, luxury, photography and art, take a moment to visit Columbia Museum of Art for the Lee Alexander McQueen & Ann Ray: Rendez-Vous exhibition.

Lee Alexander McQueen (March 17, 1969-February 11, 2010) was a British fashion designer and couturier. He founded his own label Alexander McQueen in 1992 and was chief designer at Givenchy from 1996 to 2001.

Ann Ray was the longtime friend and photographer for the designer.

Experience the beauty and creativity of these two amazing creators collaborating. The designs are breathtaking, and the creative eye that captures the still moments has made for such a stunning exhibition.

Rendez-Vous includes 50 garments designed by McQueen and over 60 photographs taken by Ray.

Mind the Business that Pays YOU

Inquiring minds tend to mind MY BUSINESS . I’m NOT PAYING YOU .

& neither is Ex-SCANA CEO Kevin Marsh !

Back in August 2017 over 5400 people received the devastating NEWS that they no longer had JOBS . Nothing ever lasts forever but I can only imagine feeling secure in a place & then having it all taken away . Forcing employees to uproot their lives & families & ultimately forcing them to figure out a new game plan for survival , simply because their higher ups were FRAUDS , I wish I had 9 BILLION dollars to play with . What’s new in WHITE PRIVILEGE ?! Marsh took a plea deal , where he must spend at least 2 years in prison & he must pay back at least 5 million dollars . I highly doubt he’ll do either .

One of South Carolina’s top businessmen has now turned snitch . He has spent the last six months as a criminal informant & is said to be a key witness for state & federal prosecutors who continue to probe the V.C. summer project’s failure .

If you’re trying to figure where the rest of the portion of that $9 Billion scam … well ratepayers will spend the next decade paying off the debt with their POWER BILLS !! Now that’s some fraudulent shit . Fairfield County residents , noticed an increase in your utility bills ? This may be why .

EXCUSES ARE THE TOOLS OF THE INCOMPETENT, USED TO BUILD BRIDGES TO NOWHERE AND MONUMENTS OF NOTHINGNESS

As I quote my forever President, Barack Obama . I must show you a clip from my former life . An interview that scorned me . An interview that I can now laugh at but things remain the same . It’s always EXCUSES when FOOLS are INCOMPETENT .

WARNING THIS VIDEO IS CRINGY .

Listen . I AM SICK & TIRED OF GROWN MEN & THEIR EXCUSES .

Solitary Confinement

We are gathered here today in this moment in time to pause , breath , THANK GOD for life & choosing to KEEP us when so many have been taken away .

Why am I still here ? Sometimes I wonder with so many brushes with death I feel like life is a blunder . I feel like there’s so much more that must be done . The battle is never truly won .

My heart has been broken far too many times . It was my silent tears that were ignored . It was my begging for my life that was immediately frowned upon .

It saddens me to say that everyone prefers a beautiful lie . The truth is such a painful reality to bear .

But I much rather release an ugly truth than be burdened with a beautiful lie .

It was in my silence that I was stepped on . Laughed at . But now everyone wants to play victim .

Misery loves company . I much rather drown in my own misery than allow a figment of my imagination to play in my face & then cry wolf .

Internal Affairs

I’m typing this from the comforts of my own home. In my new Queen bed with this pillow top mattress that gives me the sweetest dreams . Nothing but coconut oil & my waist beads on . No one can understand the level of peace I’m at at this very moment .

I prayed . I journaled . I cried . I manifested this place with the amazing natural lighting & the Hollywood lights in my bathroom . Provides space for my Fresh Prince & I to create the future we both oh so dreamed about .

This week has been a tizzy . I’m sure everyone was confused by my actions but they were important for the BLACK COLLECTIVE .

I had to expose those that have broken my heart in the past in order to pick up the pieces & allow whomever may concern to LOVE me properly .

I have to encourage those that may feel alone to GET UP . GET OUT & DO SOMETHING .

I HAD TO SHOW THE WORLD WHO THE TRUTH IS !!!

Moving forward day in & day out . J. MILLS IS PUTTING J. MILLS FIRST . If that hurts anyone it’s because they in MY BUSINESS . Don’t do that .

I look forward to growing with MY ABSOLUTE FAVORITE FASHION ICON & DESIGNER SERGIO HUDSON . He revealed to me that he received a scholarship in Culinary Arts so I’m gonna get the scoop on some of his favorite dishes & a list of restaurants I need to check out on my travel exports .

Happy Valentine’s Day . I project that the lovers are creating SCORPIOS right now so hopefully you make a GOAT & gift it to me on MY BIRTHDAY 11.02 . LOL

Don’t forget . Self LOVE is the BEST LOVE .

Getting to the Promised Land

Super Woman is here to save the day . Maybe it’s my kind words . Maybe it’s my honesty . Maybe it’s because ain’t nobody gonna take advantage of me . Being the gift . Being gifted . Being called . This is my calling .

So many people trying to figure me out . I ain’t a killer but don’t push me . I ain’t Master P but I hustle just like him & all I wanna do is master peace . I was once lost but now I’m found , he threw me away like I was in the lost & found . When I meet him at the gate I tell him he can never take my crown . I would never wear a jesus piece unless his skin is brown .

I must give thanks to Maurice at PrimeChoicePhotography for these amazing photos .

Weekly Recap

Sitting here in Drip Downtown Columbia enjoying a honey vanilla latte , feeling like Carrie Bradshaw . This week was eventful & I am grateful to each & every person that I have connected with . I have been meeting some really amazing like minded creatives & together we encourage each other . This week has been a celebration of success . Accepting my fait & knowing thyself , trusting thyself , & actually knowing what I have to offer & what I bring to the table .

Haters can’t sit with us .

Lights . Camera . Action .

It’s not always glitz & glam but I’m never taking no for an answer & I’m absolutely never settling .

I must send a major shoutout to my videographer J Andre , I put a lot of pressure on him to release our collaboration for my Youtube intro & his timing was impeccable . 2021 it’s the TAKEOVER .

I notice that the people I’m surrounded by are seekers , always searching for new creatives & scouting talent & I’m the same way . It’s my 6th sense . Because beauty is in the EYE of the beholder .

BOOK TERRELL MAXWELL PHOTOGRAPHY for all your visuals . The chemistry of having a solid team is imperative when building your brand & we immediately clicked like the flash of his camera . Ain’t nobody fucking with my clique . These are raw images . Once he puts his magical touch can you imagine how flawless these photos are gonna be ?!

I’m so grateful to all my amazing clients I love each & every one of yous . Just know that J. Mills got the midas touch , everything I touch turns into gold & I will forever & always fix my sisters crowns .

JA BLESS .

Trend Setters No Citi Trends

My head is in the clouds again . Check out the new interactive art space in Downtown Columbia , Immersion . Immersion showcases a variety of interactive art room exhibits created by local talents in South Carolina & I was truly feeling this space created by Ija Monet a self taught creative with her work exploding all over the city .

Just before her promo shoot with Now & Then Store I was able to meet the super dope model Autumn Morris , together with model Meranda Coe we did a few test shots in the rooms for fun .

Check us out .

We had so much fun . I wish you guys were there . But what I wish for even more is that you support black businesses & shop NOW & THEN STORE . It’s for all my bad & bougie boss fashionistas . Thank you again to the biggest boss Naida Rutherford .

MEDIA DAY

Reflections of 12/12/2020

As I look into the mirror or the camera lens I realize that REAL EYES REALIZE REAL LIES . I am so grateful for the overflow of opportunity that God continues to bless me with despite of my flaws . Despite of my past . Despite of illusion .

I had the honor of being Mistress of Ceremonies for the 1st Annual Rocking Around the Christmas Tree Pageant at the Women’s Club in Winnsboro , SC . It was such a fulfilling opportunity , I could remember the last time I was in the Women’s Club as a young girl receiving honor for graduating the top of my class from Fairfield Central High School in 2008 . I was gifted a dictionary which I use frequently , highlighting terms that actually enlighten my psyche .

I am so grateful to Beautifully Blessed Productions for choosing me . And again I have so much appreciation for the founder Shamieka B. Johnson Sims .

I also must give a special shoutout to PrimeChoicePhotography for capturing some amazing images of me in Downtown Columbia . It was our collaboration that confirmed for me that HOPE without action is simply just a DREAM .

The Gift That Keeps on Giving

So I’m sitting behind the computer screen digesting some very encouraging information from the City of Columbia Office of Business Opportunities & my doorbell rings . I open it to receive a package from TJ’s Elements LLC . I am so grateful for the wonderful design of business cards created that directly reflect my vision & also the expansion of my brand . Thank you TiffanyJ I am now prepared to flood the city .

The Road to Success

Sometimes the road to success can feel like the underground railroad . It’s dark . It’s scary but usually that’s the very location that miners strike gold or oil or crystals . I’ve been feeling a lot of pressure lately but like a lump of cole it’s only transforming me into a diamond .

On my pursuit of happiness I’ve climbed mountains , I’ve faced fears head on & I looked the devil in his eye to assure I am the Goddess I so choose to be .

Ye though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death . I shall fear no evil .

Though the Lord is high , he sees those who are low ; and he has knowledge from far off of those who are lifted up .

I’m saying all this to say .

SUPPORT BLACK BUSINESSES .

My GO TO for glam fashion , high end designer that’s budget friendly is Then & Now Boutique . I absolutely adore the owner Naida Rutherford and all her philanthropic activism through her Styled by Naida Foundation .

Partnering up with other local black owned businesses and nonprofits for her monthly clothing giveaway in Finlay Park , I was able to meet the beautiful Bianca Geddie , the owner of Heavenly Scent Cleaning Service .

Support my sister to protect your homes & businesses from COVID-19 .

I cannot fail to mention my big homies from the Big Homie Lil Homie Mentoring program that came out in support of their sisters .

Thank you Kris Austin . Thank you Teddius Williams .

This is OUR PARK .

3 DAYS IN A WEEK

TODAY

TOMMOROW

& YESTERDAY

The saga continues on EQUALITY . Days running into each other & life just feeling like one big DREAM . I continue to meet new people . I have gained new interests and found new inspirations . & I have never judged a book by its cover .

I have become so observant . Noticing the importance of supporting black owned businesses because this pandemic has caused so many doors to close & you know who is buying up all the property with their monopoly money … I mean inheritance !

Please Shop BLACK OWNED BUSINESSES , WHERE EVERYDAY IS BLACK FRIDAY IN MY COMMUNITY .

NOW & THEN STORE

607 Lady Street, Columbia, SC

APB SNEAKER + APPAREL BOUTIQUE

1003 Gervais Street, Columbia, SC

TOUBA FASHION BOUTIQUE

7201 Two Notch Rd, Columbia, SC

I was also able to donate gently used clothing items locally to The Grieving Needs Foundation and had the opportunity to learn what inspired founder Shamieka Bernice Johnson Sims on her journey and creating a foundation that impacts youth and gives back to the community. Her mission , HerStory , will continue to inspire me .

HAPPY THANKSGIVING

Christopher Columbus ain’t save us … Harriet showed us the underground railroad .

Kamala Harris 2020

Photo by Adam Schultz / Biden for President

Kamala Harris . An educated black woman has made her seat at the table . Winning the race that has awarded her the title of Vice President for the Free World . I look forward to seeing what changes and plans she will implement in her position . I’m proud of her for not giving up on her vision , although she had to step down as she was actually running for President , she made things very clear that it is her power and influence that got Biden elected in the first place . It’s so unfortunate that in this “Man’s World” they want to leave us out of history when HERstory is history .

Farewell Eric Ferrell

Eric Ferrell was an Icon in American History . Responsible for the behind the scenes beauty of some of the most legendary female artists in the business . His contribution to the makeup industry had such a major impact . Eric Ferrell was the man behind the beat of the Princess of R&B Aaliyah . His vision of beauty & magical makeup brushes also touch the faces of all the royals in Hip Hop & R&B . We must remember his legacy as he also was the lead creative for the MAC x Aaliyah collection that launched in 2018 .

VOTE BLUE

I feel like I’m caught up in a whirlwind or could it simply be a tidal wave . Having everything fall apart but also come together like a masterpiece at the same exact time .

Losing my uncle due to health reasons & also the empathy I feel knowing that my neighbors lost their grandson on the same exact day due to gun violence . I feel like the world is on my shoulders but the torch has apparently been passed to me therefore it is my civic duty to BE THE CHANGE .

I’m from a very small town . A town that you can drive through & still find plantations … Our children are suffering . All they want to do is create & release . But with society’s pressures they are so easily misguided .

I met with Charlamagne Tha God , someone I would consider a mentor . Being that he experienced the same adversities I admire that he always gives back to the community from 843 to 803 to 864 & he’s always so humble . I definitely encourage you to follow his movement . He’s making major moves & creating his own lane .

I also had the opportunity to express my concerns with Mayor Steve Benjamin & he listened with open ears .

The campaign rally was to ensure we elect Jaime Harrison for US Senate . We must all stick together to ensure that our voices , our struggles & our legacy does not get erased .

Check out the powerful performance by Chicago legend Common on my Facebook page . And please support BE THE CHANGE . The brand that is also making a difference in the community & flood the polls on November 3rd , our lives matter & our lives are depending on it .

SUN GODDESS

Saturday was quite rainy in the Carolina’s but that’s the perfect time to self reflect with a glass of wine. And we all know that i can turn water to wine . My favorite place to frequent when I’m in search of Spirits is Total Wine & More located in The Harbison Center

275-C Harbison Blvd
Columbia, SC 29212

I was invited to a tasting where I was able to be the first to try Iconic Grammy Award winning singer, The Queen Mary J. Blige’s new wine named after a childhood name she was given by her mother because of the connection she always had with the sun. Sun Goddess has a delicious Pinot Grigio that is crisp and light bodied, it has a slight white fruit and peach flavor. I enjoyed the Sauvignon Blanc with it’s crisp flavors of banana and melon, it is light bodied as well.

Check out Sun Goddess, you will be pleased.

APB X ADIDAS ORIGINALS FORUM

I want to give a special shout out & thanks to the team at APB Store, located in downtown Columbia, for hooking me up with an Exclusive pair of Adidas Originals Forum. The Luxury Boutique, catered to most hype beasts has partnered with several local small business owners in the community that are making a difference in health and wellness.

APB . ALL POINTS BULLETIN is a boutique with locations in

Jacksonville partner The Ronald McDonald House

Tallahassee partner Tallahassee Memorial Healthcare

Charleston partner RE, inc.

Greenville partner Gateway House

Columbia partner Columbia Urban League

Each location partnered up with a different local organization, donating essential items like All Purpose Cleaner, Face Masks, & Hand Sanitizer.

APB Store’s brand partnership with Adidas also gave away a limited pair of Adidas Originals Forums to local community leaders and activists that are active in this campaign for Healing & Wellness.

Tune in tonight, 10/06/2020 at 6:00pm EST for a digital event, this discussion with small business partners will highlight different perspectives on the importance of protecting yourself and others while living a healthy lifestyle during a pandemic.

Jasmine of the Spring

My visit to Chapel Hill , NC to meet myself in portrait form .

Seeing myself in multiple dimensions as I type this . It’s interesting .

I am so grateful that Cassandra Klos [international photographer from New England] , invited me to Chapel Hill for her amazing Exhibition at Cassilhaus .

Cassandra is an MFA Candidate at Duke University’s Experimental & Documentary Arts Program . By No Other Name was the title of the exhibition and on her journey through southern mystics , tours through Louisiana , Squatching through North Carolina for Big Foot , finding a coven , & also finding me Jasmine of the Spring …

We had to reconnect to continue the adventure .

From God’s Acres Healing Springs in Blackville , SC to the Triangle I was able to sit down and interview Cassandra , getting to know how the impact of COVID-19 affected her exhibition , what lead her on her journey & also future plans after receiving her Masters Degree from Duke University .

It was such a surreal feeling . I am grateful to have been welcomed into Cassilhaus.

LEMONADE

When life gives you lemons . You make lemonade !

Saturday’s Cultural Experience at the Historic Hampton-Preston Mansion & Gardens was so REFRESHING . Seeing so many beautiful brown people light up as their melanin reflected in the sun … amazing ! Live music . Art . Fashion . Simply a direct reflection of what the acronym LEMONADE stands for Living Every Moment Optimistically NonStop And Defying Expectations .

I can truly say that the entire pandemic I have been making lemonade of the lemons . It was a pleasure to not only enjoy the experience but it was also a really great way to network . Meeting with Gatekeepers is a necessity for growth and visibility within this massive industry that still seems so small . I am so grateful to Key Marketing for the invitation . Check out some of the photos below . I also want to thank Alston Media Group and my personal photographer Shot By Shaq . Check out a few flicks from the event below .

Hip Hop Spotlight : Ray Louis

Florida Artist Ray Louis took a trip to the Carolinas to visit family but he couldn’t leave the city without blessing us with some NU music . Seeing the versatility as an artist & also the work ethic , as he recorded two fire tracks in less than two hours . First recording No Time , a melodic tune that the ladies would definitely enjoy . Before getting into the booth Ray said something about light & dark & how we will always have both . The good & the evil . Ray immediately came into the studio early Working , he was not playing any games at all . The 2nd song recorded was a fun upbeat club tune that will motivate you to chase the bag . I like how he’s both r&b & rap but he separates the two & he has a really hard ass selection of beats for either feel .

Ray Louis got in the booth & didn’t have to write a damn thing but he has written for a few artists in Miami . Check out clips of Ray’s session at V12 Studios with MoneyMadeMuzic .

Check out The Gift That Keeps on Giving https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-gift-that-keeps-on-giving-single/1526391589

Florida Water

First off I want to highlight TRAPBACHi . It’s Trap Music meets Urban Hibachi & it’s the best food you’re going to find in Ft. Lauderdale . I pulled up on the homie Ray Louis , Culinary Artist & Rap Visionary . TRAPBACHi is mandatory trapbachi.com check out the menu EVERYTHING is A1 !! Like a day 1 !! Check out The Gift That Keeps on Giving https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-gift-that-keeps-on-giving-single/1526391589 Ray Louis got that new heat . Great food, great music, great vibes , great people . Tap in . We are here to support each other .

Networking with young CEO & boss of The Pretty Gorgeous Brand , Amber is my go to for all accessory needs . Order https://theprettygorgeousbrand.com/ .

Of course the beach is always the vibe , but if you been on the wave you know Legaxy ! I would say Legaxy is a triple threat , his pen is pretty powerful , he’s written for artists & his fluidity as a rapper & singer is so skilled . A true talent I’ve always admired because he never feared his gift . We talked about balance & the power to manifest , we talked about how difficult things get but always fall into place so perfectly . I’m so ready to put ROTATTION — Legaxy’s new single with Tory Lanes that drops August 14 — on REPEAT . There may be a track dropping with a female rapper as well , that includes Legaxy & Tory so stay tuned for that . During a session in Miami’s historic , Circle House studios , I truly can say I witnessed greatness . Check clips from the session below this one gonna be a banger too !!

I absolutely love the creative process . Connecting with Earth , Wind, Air , Fire , & Water was also important in Florida .

Californication

Cali Brought Clarity

Cali brought cleansing. Cali brought a release. Cali brought an awakening.

I could not be more grateful to be back on the West Coast, some say the Best Coast. It was such a celebratory experience! Seeing new things but also reflecting on past experiences as well, like 2020 vision. This process was a transformation. This process allowed me to foresee many truths. Awakening of the third eye consciousness needed to survive the spiritual battle. Making history, creating everlasting memories, reflections.

I must be the change that I want to see. How can I make a difference without acting different?! So my mission for change was in effect. The Black Effect. We still want JUSTICE.

California was love. Major love was shown. Much respect. The Marathon Continues.

ISSUE : GONE PAY MY BILLS

Today’s topic stems from a viral video … which I truly believe is scripted (the acting be so terrible) … of a female being dumped by her boyfriend for creating an ONLY FANS account.

Let’s just say I admire a hustler. Get your coin by any means. However life is about choices and there are consequences for each and every one. In this situation maybe money was more important or it could be the fear of going broke. Or maybe the couple is utilizing this trending topic in order to trend … Clout & a cash pay out! I’m just on the outside looking in, but people beg for attention then get it and claim to be so depressed . Girl please you been seeking this attention.

“Is you gone pay my bills?” was the question in defense.

People constantly want to justify flaw behavior by incorporating income. But her dude wanna be famous too so he might as well fuck for a buck. Gone pay them bills! Your girl is a step away from her big break, yall sex tape might land her a role as a Wild-n-Out girl or even better.

J. Mills Recommendations: 10 Amazing Books

To read during quarantine.
If you’re a book worm or just needing some enlightenment. I have 10 great reads that will expand your imagination. No particular order.

  1. Nefertiti : The Book of the Dead by Nick Drake
  2. The Way of the Orisa by Philip John Neimark
  3. The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
  4. The Kybalion by Three Initiates
  5. The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield
  6. Secrets of the Millionaire Mind by T. Harv Eker
  7. The Motivation Manifesto by Brendon Burchard
  8. The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene
  9. Think and Grow RICH by Napoleon Hill
  10. The Twelve Universal Laws of Success by Herbert Harris

ADONIS

We all know the HOT TOPIC every since Pusha T revealed the gender, has been Drake’s son . Well today with a formal introduction to the virtual world , Drake took to Instagram to post some of the most adorable pictures of his baby boy . It is possible that a self-help book author ghost wrote his caption , but who cares Drake does no wrong .

I cannot forget to mention the gorgeous Sophie Brussaux, Adonis’ mother . Let’s hope she’s not a trained puppet cause just shortly after she finally decided to do the same thing as Drake … or maybe it was in the contract . But that’s neither here nor there . On March 30, 2020 Adonis’ parents decided it was safe to introduce him to the internet.

ALONE TOGETHER

WTF does that even mean? I’m moving accordingly, I’ve been living as normally as I can. But without being able to decompress and also feeling restricted, that’s a combination that creates a stir of emotions. Are we alone together? Because this Power Trip makes me feel more alone, and when we’re together I must wear a mask to appear strong. You are my weakness, can you not see?! It’s borderline humiliating. I want more for myself so I rather be alone. But together feels so right. You are my escape and yet you are an illusion. All of this confusion causes delusion. This is a poetic injustice. How can I break this before I’m broken?

J. Mills

J. Mills Quarantine Chronicles

How have you guys been holding up during this time of “Social Distancing”??

As we all experience this brief intermission in life, have you taken a moment to self reflect? I strongly advise to use this time that we all tremendously needed, this break, this opportunity to be still. Although we are social distancing i still recommend putting a pause on social media as well. This is a moment of self-evaluation, prioritization, planning, and ultimately preparing. The shift into this new decade has made me face my insecurities and the only thing I can say to myself is “BE CONFIDENT”. Confident in my goals, confident in my ideas, confident that the way I invest my time & energy it will reflect in my future.

How do you want this time to reflect in your future?! Spend this time doing something productive, like learning how to cook, or learning a new recipe. Working out is also a habit to get into that could show great results in the future. Study or research some topics that excite you. Read!

Whatever it is you choose to do is YOUR CHOICE, but life’s choices always come full circle.

J. COLE X PUMA

Dreamville is out here dominating MUSIC ! FASHION ! & SPORTS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sportswear brand Puma has signed a multi-year footwear and apparel deal with J.Cole. Cole launched a shoe yesterday, the SKY DREAMER but stay tuned because other apparel & sneakers will definitely be dropping this year … Puma’s Global Director of Brand & Marketing Adam Petrick says their partnership is “Deep Rooted.”

“He is going to be a key player in many of the things we do at Puma moving forward, and we’re excited to work with him not only on a product level but even more importantly as one of our athletes.”

“AS ONE OF OUR ATHLETES”

My boy has been really giving it to’em on the court . Hey I wouldn’t be surprised if he inked an NBA deal & walks on that ROC NATION SPORTS roster. He making all kinda dreams come true which is why you most definitely gotta check out the campaign trailer set to play during the NBA ALL-STAR this upcoming weekend.

Sergio Hudson : Fall 2020 Runway Show

Emotions were intense backstage after luxury clothing designer Sergio Hudson closed out the first official night of New York Fashion Week with an incredible show. The South Carolina native shed tears of joy with all his loved ones & supporters, I could feel the energy as his mother held him in her arms & whispered words of POWER into his ear — speak life into your children!

Sergio Hudson Collection was established in 2014 & since he has been designing for high profile clients such as Forever First Lady Michelle Obama, Beyonce, Zendaya, and you may have been 1 of the 99.9 million people that watched the Super Bowl LIV where singer Demi Lovato wore his pieces as she sang the National Anthem.

I could feel the sense of relief & gratitude. I can only imagine how overwhelming but extremely exciting it is preparing for NYFW. Sergio’s debut was an absolute success, the room was packed from wall to wall. This season of Sergio’s luxury ready to wear is indeed for the powerful woman, his inspirations not only for this collection but as a designer all together come from a list of powerful women, such as Angela Winbush, En Vogue, Whitney Houston, Anita Baker, Lisa Fischer, Sade, Tina Turner, Stephanie Mills, Regina Belle, Pebbles and most certainly his mother. He also collabed with Saga Furs for a few quality pieces, Opal Stone Designs for accessories, and shoe designer Jessica Rich. I cannot fail to mention Co Creative Director Charles Lynch, together him & Sergio make a powerful team.

JANUARY 28TH

Happy Birthday to a Living Legend, The GRAMMY AWARD WINNING, QUADRUPLE PLATINUM SELLING ARTIST, J. COLE.

He likes to be modest so I’m sure he would feel like that intro is a bit much, but I’m proud of you big bro. You’ve reached a milestone that every music artist secretly desires even if they pretend otherwise, or even if they’re not satisfied once they’ve achieved a dream they could only imagine as a child.

And I’m not talking bout the Grammy, I’m talking about the longevity you’ve achieved in this industry, but most importantly LIFE. Your persistence inspires me, your growth inspires me. If these words could be the flowers that your words have always been to me I would go on forever.

MAMBA FOREVER 24.8.2

The devastating news about Kobe Bryant has been extremely hard to digest. The Legend. The Icon. The Mamba.

On January 26, 2020 news reports spread like the wild fires in Northern California about a helicopter crash in Calabasas.  The victims included college baseball coach John Altobelli, his daughter Alyssa Altobelli and wife, Keri Altobelli; girls’ basketball coach Christina Mauser; mom Sarah Chester and her 13-year-old daughter, Payton Chester; Pilot Ara Zobayan; and 13-year-old Gianna Bryant.

Gianna Bryant –my heart breaks to say either of their names– the promising protege of The GREAT himself in female form, that’s even more badass! What’s even more upsetting is that they were on their way to the Mamba Sports Academy where Kobe was planning to coach a tournament for the Lady Mavericks.

MAMBA FOREVER. MAMBA MENTALITY.

That mentality of hard work, dedication, practicing at your craft in order to perfect it DAILY, love, family, brotherhood, encouraging others, empowering others, inspiring others.

I will never forget you Your Greatness. My heart bleeds Purple & Gold.

ROAD TO 2020 WITH ANGELA RYE

Thursday evening the Historically Black College, Claflin University, located in Orangeburg, South Carolina hosted a live podcast recording of ON ONE WITH ANGELA RYE. The CNN Political Commentator interviewed Mayor Pete Buttigieg about his plans in office if he is elected as President this upcoming November.

The interview took place at Minister’s Hall, the same exact location President Obama spoke in 2007, a local resident informed us. Angela stated that she wanted to interview Mayor Buttigieg because of The Douglass Plan.

The Douglass Plan

“A COMPREHENSIVE AND INTENTIONAL DISMANTLING OF RACIST STRUCTURES AND SYSTEMS COMBINED WITH AN EQUALLY INTENTIONAL AND AFFIRMATIVE INVESTMENT OF UNPRECEDENTED SCALE IN THE FREEDOM AND SELF-DETERMINATION OF BLACK AMERICANS.”

This includes reforming broken criminal justice and health systems, strengthening access to credit and injecting capital into the Black community, and taking bold steps toward fulfilling long-broken promises of true equity.

Being that Mayor Buttigieg only has a 2% Black Vote in South Carolina, the discussion was very insightful for locals but also all Americans that may be interested in knowing more about the Plans, Policies, & Acts that he plan’s to implement as President of the United States of America.

Equity was an important word used in the interview, shit people tired of struggling. Working all day & night to live mediocre unfulfilled lives. Mayor Buttigieg was candid about the disparities in income and wealth. The Mayor is not for CANCELING STUDENT LOANS … something I need done like yesterday! When Angela asked him about his support for the HR40 Bill designed to study reparations proposals, she wanted to know if he would include equity beyond study & this is what he said

“There has been generational dispossession of blacks since 1619 which is directly connected to the dispossession today, compounded by the effects of slavery which ended TWO, AND ONLY TWO lifetimes ago. And if the Federal Government funded these harms, we have to fund a way to mend what has been broken.”

Angela grilled him about his 21st Century Homestead Act stating that the Homestead Act of 1862 gave access to land to 1.6Million White Americans and only 6000 Black Americans were given access to land. When asked about funding HBCUs, Mayor Pete really talked circles around the question.

Mayor Buttigieg stated that he & his husband — oh yea that’s the tea cause if he win we gone basically have 2 Presidents, I mean his husband is a school teacher he should have great insight on how to touch the youth — want to have kids and will have to go through a process therefore he’s all for egg freezing & IVF being covered by Health Care.

Angela ended the interview by asking what black women would he absolutely need on his Cabinet in the White House and here were a few names dropped… Dr. Susan Rice, National Security. Mayor LaToya Cantrell, New Orleans. Stacy Abrams. He added that his Cabinet will be 50% female.

Check out the live podcast here https://soundcloud.com/ononewithangelarye/road-to-2020-pete-buttigieg

IVY PARK x ADIDAS

It’s 2020 & I can already feel the shift into this new decade. One that’s got me so inspired is Beyonce’s active wear line Ivy Park, teaming up with Europe’s largest sportswear manufacturer & the second largest in the world, Adidas!!! Sis is always securing the bag. The new season of Ivy Park drops 1/18/2020 so get your coin & shopping carts ready. I’m so excited about this launch not only because it’s fashionable & the pieces are stylish but it’s also going to motivate me to get in the gym so I can transform my body into that sexy stature that Bey has in the ad campaign.

DREAMVILLE FEST 2020

Have you created your Christmas List? You might have a new addition since Dreamville Records just announced their second annual Dreamville Festival on Saturday, April 4, 2020 in Raleigh, North Carolina at Dorthea Dix Park. Tickets went on sale today https://dreamvillefest.com/tickets/ grab yours!!! This is an event you do not want to miss, that benefits the Dreamville Foundation and Dix Park Conservancy.

I can’t wait until the line-up is announced because the inaugural fest was crazy, with performances by all the Dreamville Artists: J.I.D. , Ari Lennox, Lute, Omen, Earth Gang, Bas, Cozz, & of course J. Cole, Big Sean, SZA, Teyana Taylor, 6lack, Meek Mill, 21 Savage, Nelly, and many more.

https://youtu.be/zn1OdABpu-A

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HOV

Today marks half a century for the great Jigga Man, JayHova, Jay Z, Shawn Corey Carter & he came baring gifts. Yea he just released his entire music catalog on Spotify!

Tidal has been live streaming all of Hov’s music & videos all day & I’m so here for it!

Check out this amazing write-up on Hov’s Lyrical Wisdom http://read.tidal.com/article/the-lyrical-wisdom-of-jay-z , he has tons of quotable phrases to live by.

Allen Iverson Honored

The Legend. No wait The Goat. But some of you may know him as The Answer, Allen Iverson returned to his Alma Mater, Bethel High School in Hampton Virginia where they named their gym Allen Iverson Gymnasium. I must say I’m a little confused … why didn’t they name it Bubba’s Gymnasium. Ha! Just kidding. Congratulations 3, one of my most favorite NBA players of all time. He most certainly deserves this iconic honor.

Kamala Harris For The People … But The People Were Not For Kamala Harris!

Democratic Candidate Senator Kamala Harris announced on Tuesday that she will no longer be running for President due to lack of financial resources.

The news was very unfortunate. I had just been contacted by one of her Reps & had been putting together some ideas on how to better South Carolina.

Kamala Harris For The People

Democratic candidate, Senator Kamala Harris presented A Plan to Address the Mental Health Care Crisis in America, to residents of Berkeley County Monday afternoon in South Carolina’s Low Country. Her goal is to Provide Mental Health Care on Demand.

THE PLAN

  • FOCUS FEDERAL FUNDING ON NEEDED MENTAL HEALTH RESEARCH: Kamala will direct federal funds to seek better treatment for mental health and research on mental health issues more broadly, including research on Adults with Serious Mental Illness (SMI), and the use of interventions that Reduce Homelessness, Arrest, Incarceration, and Unnecessary Hospitalization.
  • EXPAND COVERAGE OF AND ACCESS TO MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES: Through her Medicare For ALL Plan, Kamala will deliver mental health care on demand via telemedicine, providing care by phone or video to ALL Americans whenever and wherever they need it — all without deductible copays. A shortage of mental health professionals harms American families and communities. It also drives provider stress and burnout. Kamala will authorize an educational loan forgiveness program for mental health professionals that agree to practice in areas with a shortage of providers.
  • INCREASE ACCESS TO HOSPITALS, HOUSING, AND OTHER CARE FACILITIES: Kamala will double the number of treatment beds nationwide, prioritizing states with shortages, including Iowa, Nevada, South Carolina, and Michigan, so persons with mental illness can receive the high levels of care they need. She’ll repeal the Institutions of Mental Disease (IMD) exclusion, which precludes Medicaid funding for adults receiving care in psychiatric facilities with more than 16 beds and has exacerbated a severe shortage of acute psychiatric care beds nationwide.
  • FOCUS ON VULNERABLE POPULATIONS: Double US Departments of Defense and Veterans Affairs (VA) research dollars to address and treat PTSD, Military Sexual Trauma, and Traumatic Brain Injury. Invest in evidence-based screenings for childhood trauma — including the fact that poverty is trauma-inducing — to diagnose and treat mental health as early as possible.
  • END THE MENTAL HEALTH CRISIS-TO-JAIL PIPELINE: Kamala will expand Crisis Intervention Team Training, which integrates Specialized Police, Mental Health Professionals, EMS, 911 Systems, and Hospital Emergency Rooms in response to mental health crisis calls.

The Oakland Native and Howard University Grad discussed her Plan of Action with Charleston Native, Radio Personality, Television Personality, and Author, Charlamagne Tha God. Charlamagne is major advocate for receiving the proper treatment for Mental Health, stating that not only is it important to hit the gym a few times a week to care of his body but it is also priority to attend weekly therapy sessions every Friday to maintain the health of his mind. As Charlamagne has been able to access the causes of his anxiety and peel back the layers of his own Mental Health, he was able to have a discussion with his father who expressed that he once tried to commit suicide. The conversation stemmed from Charlamagne’s 26 year old cousin that committed suicide before Thanksgiving last year. We must send our condolences to the family as it is approaching the anniversary of such a traumatic experience. Charlamagne had a transparency moment, expressing how Mental Health is neglected in his own family, his mother thinking his father was only pretending to be crazy to receive a check (which is extremely common in the African American Community). Also expressing that that was not his cousin’s first suicide attempt but his fourth!

Charlamagne thanked Senator Harris for not only speaking on the subject matter that is so often swept under the rug, but actually generating a plan, unlike any of the other Presidential Candidates.

Disney+ Has Everyone Feeling Nostalgic

Have you subscribed to the new on-demand streaming service? Providing you with classics from The Disney Vault, new releases, TV series, and exclusive Originals. Making me feel like a kid again, my only question is WHERE THE PROUD FAMILY AT?

Cough up the coins because there is a subscription fee, but lucky for Verizon Wireless plan holders they are providing FREE streaming of the service for a year.

VICTORIA SECRET FASHION SHOW CANCELED.

I didn’t really expect such a major pop culture event to be canceled in it’s nearly two and a half decade run, but it’s not like I really watched it anyway… Unless Rihanna was performing! And speaking of RiRi could Victoria Secret be sensing the competition of her recent lingerie brand Savage Fenty?! Because that Savage Fenty Fashion Show was sizzzzling , hot , fire. Take note VS, the people want variety, not dull, bland, or boring. LMAO

THE FALL OFF 2020

Carolina’s Finest & a well known rap god, J. Cole has me and so many more fans on edge after teasing the release of his 6th studio album THE FALL OFF. I’m most certainly on board for this political campaign, J. Mills for VP!

A Conversation on Improving Mental Health Awareness With Michelle Williams , Charlamagne Tha God, & Marianne Williamson

Michelle Williams and Charlamagne Tha God are transparent about their personal battles with depression and anxiety. Michelle advocates with the message on her T-Shirt and very vocally that “Therapy is Cool”. Michelle explains how she still has to deprogram from depression she has been dealing with since age 12. Being in the spotlight isn’t always about photoshoots, redcarpets, music videos, and concerts, those are simply the reels that are presented to the mass, we don’t always get to see the other 23 hours of your favorite celebrity’s day, even if we do follow them on social media. Charlamagne Tha God makes it clear that social media is an illusion, and expresses that he’s been diagnosed with anxiety since 2010.

Charlamagne says that Howard Stern is not the bar and he doesn’t agree with the comparison that he’s the “Hip Hop Howard Stern”, and makes it very clear that social media is only 3% of people’s real life, “It’s only the highlight reel.” I admire his persistence, being fired from 4 radio stations and one in which I interned at, I have that much more respect for his ability to evolve and grow while at the same time battling with personal issues that the public isn’t even aware of. Being self aware is what makes him so powerful.

Therapy is highly suggested because it is so overlooked in the African American community, allowing one to release the anchors of their past that are holding them down so that they could find freedom and acceptance for who they are. I asked “How do you have so much confidence and courage while also battling the mental health crisis?” Both said to DO THE WORK, & Charlamagne said do it for YOURSELF.

Marianne Williamson got all the students in an uproar of cheers when she said that her goal in office is to CANCEL student loan debt. With Cancel Culture I think that to be only appropriate. Sayonara Sallie Mae, you’re Canceled.

ROC NATION SPORTS

ROC Nation Sports welcomes the Carolina native Dennis Smith Jr. & NBA player for the New York Knicks just joined the roster of athletes signed to ROC Nation Sports management. The point guard from Fayetteville, NC was drafted in 2017 as the 9th overall pick. Check out this clip from the 2019 NBA All-Star Dunk Contest to see who might have inspired this decision.

MRS. PETTY

This isn’t a petty post, I just wanted to congratulate Mrs. Onika Tanya Maraj-Petty. That’s right, Nicki Minaj tied the knot officially 10.21.19 with boyfriend now husband, Kenneth Petty. BARBIE X KEN.

The Sketchbook Tour

Opening Night

I had the honor of meeting Carolina Royalty, the Queen Fantasia. Such a sweetheart greeting fans before a powerful Opening Night performance in the legendary Township Auditorium in Columbia, SC. The Grammy Award Winning Artist performed an hour set with her all girl band! GIRL POWER!!! Headlining with great performances from Tank, Robin Thicke, and The Bonfyre. Get your tickets for the show & also check out Fantasia’s new album The Sketchbook.

https://fantasiaofficial.com/

Sergio Hudson Collection

Sergio Hudson is a Luxury Women’s ready-to-wear label designed and produced entirely in Los Angeles. Composed of jaw dropping statement pieces, and wardrobe staples. The collections masterful use of color, and silhouette, makes the Hudson woman stand out from the rest. Every garment is carfully designed and crafted to exude power and sexiness, while maintaining elegance, and class, When a woman purchases a Sergio Hudson piece she can be assured she is acquiring a showstopping look made from the best quality materials, that will stand the test of time.

I decided to highlight this designer because we both attended the same high school, Fairfield Central High School. Being from such a rural town I have so much admiration for Sergio, first winning the one and only season of Rihanna’s reality fashion competition show Styled to Rock back in 2013 & he has been designing for A-List Celebrities, Queens, & the First Lady Mrs. Michelle Obama. Check out Sergio Hudson Collection http://www.sergiohudson.com

The Modern Day Marilyn Monroe

It was back in 2013 on The Breakfast Club that Kanye gave Kim that title.

Marilyn Monroe of course was an icon & sex symbol. I can understand where Kanye would get the comparison. Kim Kardashian West does embody the symbol of sex, promiscuity, and she has a huge influence in the entertainment industry. Kim Kardashian West’s ultimate claim to fame was the infamous sextape she made with ex-boyfriend/R&B singer Ray-J & instead of shying away from that “image” KKW has branded herself around nudity… She even has her own fragrance with a bottle that is a mold of her naked body.

Since making the statement in 2013 when Kim was his fiancé, they went on to get married & have had 4 children. That should transform the tramp into a lady you would think, well I guess not check out this clip from last night’s episode of KUWTK. Kanye stormed out of the room before embarrassing his wife on camera.

Don’t Let The Static Drown Us

Soulful Songstress & Dreamville’s First Lady Ari Lennox is very VOCAL when it comes to expressing her opinions on many social topics and how she feels as an artist. Most recently she took to twitter in search of a lawyer & new management & also stated that she doesn’t want anymore “fake soulless” sh*t around her. I did a little investigating and realized that she is not following either of her managers on Instagram (@paris_cole or @justinlamotte). I’m curious to know what’s going on but ultimately wishing the best for Ari, she has an amazing sound & Dreamville is packed with some really talented artist. I believe in her but I also realize that the most legendary artists went through so many trials, testing their faith & resilience, somewhat like a hazing process. Any who if you have any recommendations or suggestions for entertainment attorneys or management, please feel free to direct that to @arilennox on all social platforms & feel free to tell her #jmillstheartist sent you.

Wow… That’s Crazy

“Sue me. I’m rooting for everybody that’s black!” Wale said what he said and I couldn’t agree more. The DC rapper just released his new album Wow… That’s Crazy & all I can say is BLACK EXCELLENCE. He has some really great features such as Ari Lennox, Bryson Tiller, 6lack, Jeremih, Rick Ross, Meek Mill and more. Check out the album https://wale.lnk.to/wowthatscrazy & thank me later.